How old are you?
L - 22
S - 20
P - 23
Where do you all live?
L- New York, USA
S- California, USA
P - Sydney, Australia
Are you all boys or girls?
We get this question quite a bit. You may find these things on our “About Us” page to your right, but here is the general breakdown:
L - Biologically female, genderqueer
S - Biologically female, feminine
P - Biologically female, feminine
What are your sexualities?
L is androgynous and only attracted to females.
S is a lesbian.
P is a femme lesbian.
What are your personal Tumblrs?
We are choosing to stay anonymous for now. We may or may not release our personal Tumblrs at a later date. :)
Can I be one of your girlfriends?
Well, P has a girlfriend, but S and L are single…
How do I submit?
There is a link on the left side of our page that says submit! If you can’t find that, please go to http://www.notestomyfuturegirlfriend.tumblr.com/submit. Our format is:
Dear Future Girlfriend,
[Insert message here]
Love,
Me
Who submits to this blog?
We get submissions from both men and women. We don’t know the exact ratio, but there is an adequate amount of submissions. We purposely make everything ambiguous (in terms of format) so it doesn’t really matter. If you like a note, then you like it and it shouldn’t matter the gender or sex of the person who submitted it! :D
How can we contact you?
Please see our contact page!
Can I submit anonymously?
Yes, you can. Either submit and make it clear in the title that you want it to be anonymous and we will make it anonymous or just submit it anonymously through our ask box!
The easiest way for us (and generally the quickest way to get your post in the queue) is for you to sign out of your Tumblr and then submit without being logged in. It will ask you for your name and email, but you can literally just put “anon at anon@anon.com.” Thanks!
How long does it take for submissions to get posted?
We have so many wonderful submissions in the queue and it takes a rather long time for them to be posted. Please be patient; lately, they have been taking one to three weeks.
How many posts do you normally have in your queue?
Right now, we are at maximum capacity and we have over 200 waiting just to go in our queue! Nice!
Do you post all submissions?
Yes we do. So far, since the beginning of this blog, there have been 2 that have been purposely deleted due to inappropriate content that was insulting.
How will I know if my submission has been published or received?
We can’t possibly contact a person every time their note is received or published. Please keep an eye out and be patient!
How can I apply to become an administrator? Why don’t you have any male administrators?
We do not have any male administrators because this blog is run by a group of friends and we happen to all be biologically female. If you would like to apply to become an administrator, please send an application to our email (located on our contact page)! We don’t need any administrators or help right now, but we will keep everyone who submits an application updated!
We do not provide an application either. Please just say why you would be good for the position and give us some information about yourself.
Can you promote my blog?
If you’d like a blog promotion, please submit a graphic or advertisement-type post. We’ll review it and post it if we feel it is appropriate.
What do androgynous, genderqueer, femme, pansexual, and gender non-conforming mean?
- Androgynous: Being neither distinctly male or female in appearance.
- Genderqueer: Incorporating characteristics from both (or neither) the traditionally female and male genders; sometimes used to describe someone who feels they have no gender. Sometimes used in reference to gender non-conforming.
- Femme: Generally embodying traditionally feminine characteristics; often used in queer culture to define the opposite of a butch lesbian (meaning it is sometimes, but not always, associated with an intentionally feminine lesbian).
- Pansexual: Someone who loves based on personality and not gender or sex. It is inclusive of people who identify as transgendered or transexual as well.
- Gender non-conforming: Someone who does not desire or feel the need to conform to the idea of a traditionally female or male role. People can identify as this for a variety of reasons.
Remember, these definitions are not set in stone. Everyone has their own identity and specific thoughts/feelings on their identity. These are general definitions and the definitions we generally go by as the administrators of this site. :)
How do you know one another?
We all met on Tumblr. :)
How did this blog begin?
A note was written. An idea was had. An idea was proposed. An idea was brought into being. This being soon became awesome. :P
